Thoughts in reality #1

In Chennai , I have seen so many people these days while travelling in a bus or train , everybody is running for something. I don’t see any happy faces when I started from my home to work , in each person’s face I can see the Emptiness even myself, I question myself… wait…. where are you running???… the answer is I don’t know.

we all are worried about everything for what we have, what we don’t have we worried about every single thing that matters for us, it’s true we can’t stop caring about everything until you start believe in your intuition .

intuition is solitude, we all hated our life, our work at some point we can’t focused with our commitments because you are not ready to put a shit together that doesn’t matter in the future anymore.

The Dark Side of imagination, eke out the way which is so concerned about the consequences before a start , creating hypothetical scenario’s in all the possible way with the fear of what if it is goes wrong, we always give the chance to the people to influence their thoughts into us, I did that many times, I agree but I have learned now, after the real-time realisation when my thoughts aren’t sync with the reality, I thought of doing something but I end up with something.

I started realising where I am going?????

what I am doing here???

because I made up so many opinions that confuse my state of mind in the mid, so many people out there are living for others .for instance, okay…now if I post this video everybody thinks I am happy…if I wear this dress everybody says I am pretty, whatever you say like you doing it for yourself at the end of the day we want people to like us to tell good opinions about us . So here is the problem again for the same people we have that fear like what if they don’t like us??… what am I do if they stop talking with me???… we don’t have the fear of people we have that fear of losing people for being alone.

everything is difficult when we stepping out of your comfort zone. In our environment, the negative atmosphere is surrounding with us comparatively, people will say don’t do this but nobody will say do this, just bring out yourself from the insecurities and start exploring the new surroundings make sure that makes you satisfy and confident.

With love

ME

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34 Comments Add yours

  1. nagstrong12 says:

    The one thing you know is no one can love you as much as u do. But’ can we live long loving our self alone? What should we do? I don’t know!

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    1. It’s hard but better to ourselves

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      1. nagstrong12 says:

        What hurt more is u care for them. And u hav to pretend like u don’t. It’s hard. Its not me.

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      2. Haha…same here I can’t express it but I do care and end up being aloneπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚don’t give a damn then I never regret for this

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  2. Vishnu says:

    Everybody likes to be loved and liked and missed I guess. It would be heavenly if everybody loved n liked each other for who they are as a person, their soul. But we find value in crap- like you said the looks, the dress, the accessories, so on.

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    1. If everybody loves each other as a person definitely that would be end of the world I thinkπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  3. Anand says:

    Good post! True to the core…πŸ‘

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    1. Thank you anand..!!! Hope you are doing good

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      1. Anand says:

        Nope…not good! 😝

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      2. Ahaa…but you looking goodπŸ˜‰,by the way do you rem me???? We’ve met once

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      3. Anand says:

        Once!? How can someone resist the second meeting after meeting me only once!

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      4. I’ve seen you with a girl when I met you that’s why

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      5. Anand says:

        Yes how can I forget that day when u said you would never ever talk to me again!

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      6. I said that because you refused to brought me a brownie when I’m hungryπŸ˜‚

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  4. Anand says:

    I did not refuse Sandhya. I just couldn’t understand what you asked for! I didn’t knew English then.

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  5. You can understand someone is hungry by their face, language is not necessaryπŸ˜‚

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    1. Anand says:

      But I was shy the.. so I was not looking at your face to avoid eye contact

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      1. Avoid eye contact?? With me?? In front of your girlfriend??πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ You’ll definitely into the trouble then

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  6. Anand says:

    Actually she was not my girlfriend so I was hiding from you as I feared that you will inform her

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    1. Alert playboy in the townπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  7. Anand says:

    But I am not the same now. Your words still haunt me. I am a changed man

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    1. Then get me a brownie parcel

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  8. vishnubkz says:

    Well said…πŸ‘

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    1. Thank you Vishnu..!!! How r u??

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      1. vishnubkz says:

        You are welcome😊. I am goodπŸ‘

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      2. Your blog is awesome…my favorite too because it’s about my everlasting love FOOD❀

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      3. vishnubkz says:

        Thank you very much sandhya ❀.your blog is awesome too dear keep going πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘Œ

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      4. πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒ

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  9. Sri says:

    “Fear of losing” is what that keeps us running behind things. We almost stopped living for ourselves.

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    1. Yeah it’s the hardest truth to accept sri

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  10. Nice work! @sandhyajosephine. Keep writing.
    One suggestion: your content is solid but then please try to edit it as much as you can. There is nothing subtle than a perfectly good write up. Try to maintain a logical flow with your writing.
    Keep writing!

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    1. I’m not a professional writer and all, blogging is part of my hobby so I hope you get my point

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