Okay…this is one of my strange experience, ever since in my teenage everybody’s usual question is,
what’s your life goals?
Are you single?
Why you are not committed yet??
Are you in break?
Oh really you won’t marry are you going to be mother teresa??
On a very serious note no one can be someone, maybe the way of thinking will be same. It’s common that every single person you met will not going to be same, some likes to talk, some likes to annoy, some will be crazy and weird. I’ll behave according to their mood swings. I don’t know why but every person who asked about my life goals after I replied to them, they were just look at me one sec and started laughing, I’m clueless. I said” I want to serve people who are all needy and suffering, I just want to start NGO or trust organization or in any way I can help them “ I heard the big gaint laugh from the person who stands in front of me, seriously is that funny??, I don’t even say I want to be mother teresa I know it’s funny no one can deserve to be imagine like her,ever since I used to be mocked by the people for this answer. Maybe my goals is different from yours, because my choice of living or the way of I see things is not same like everybody. Is getting married then having children and pampering them is the life goals means?? very sorry, I’m not that type.
The main problem with this human kind is we trust and do everything what’s our ancestors told us decades ago ,our grandparents insist their children the way of living and the things what you do and what not to do in their period so our parents follows their way and they forced us to live in that way and told us this is our culture, see first of all culture is teach us to how to behave but our culture is not given us any chance to behave we are so controlled and exploited by the society that’s not even give the rights to speak out what you thought, even if you speak people are against your thoughts they think your way of thinking is gonna spoil others, yes…it’s has the strongest truth it’ll make people think so maybe that’s why, they scare when some women’s are talks about feminism a lot, let me know how many of you guys likes the way feminist talk?
There is a life out there, things you can do to yourself, people always see me with a pitty face that I was like homeless child, because I don’t have boyfriend. then they’ll give me a bullshit life lessons that’s not gonna help in any of the way, I was used to listen because I don’t have a choice because I don’t like to spit on people face directly I know that’s so rude.
I’ve many friends I realize through the long-term research, the person who loves everybody will not loved by anyone, maybe very little percentage of people can nice to them but that’s also not for a lifetime agree???, this kind of people like me always want a forever kind of, they were not so attracted or giving the space in their life for the temporary stuff, they want everything to be a epic, they are broad minders even any small things can’t affect them because they’ve the faith in themselves that they’ll makes things work out even it gets worse.
And finally, everything ends up with marriage even yourselves, whether you’re upto this or you hate this or you’re not mentally ready for this marriage and stuff, people always dig at your life and they’re so involved in this period more than you. I usually influence my friends to not get married they’ll always scared of me when I’m started talking about this topic, because i’ll say all possible strange things what will happen after getting married then they get confused, yes…I’m evil minded but never mind that, if you’re truly connected to something none of the negative thoughts affected you’re relationship at any cost. I’m used to be independent and happy under no one’s control so it’s difficult for me to depend on someone, and I don’t find marriage is serious stuff like everybody’s you’re not complete women if you’re not get married, seriously, is that how this gonna work?? I feel incomplete if I’ve a chance to reach my destiny(goal) but I missed that so closer, that’s gonna break me down instead of any of this stupid, meaningless question you ask.
I never said don’t get married and I’m saying marry when you find someone truly who can’t throw out your dreams and goals outside into the garbage, marry them if you feel the same way after thousand years, marry them by knowing what they’re inside, marry them only because you love the same way they do.
can anybody gone through this situation???
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